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[rehaan_kool]

Hai Bharathy.. U urself have solved ur problem.. Dnt worry forget about the guy Miju.. I am sure u will come across more nice guyz.. Moreover u r a very responsible gurl n the beautiful is awaiting for u.. Hence just forget the past like a nightmare n just move on with confidence.. These r yours lines only.. :-)


" I really dont know whether the feel what i have for him is really love or since he is the very first man (from my childhood till today, my parents didnt shower their affection on me) to be kind towards me I feel so."

Ok friend.. Take care,, Bye b happy n smiling alwayz.. 

[tryperfection]

Hello Bharathy,

I think you have taken a perfect and bold decision.
Love is about sacrifices and not acquiring. I know its quite hard, but still...
I know you didnt get any sort of affection in your whole life from anyone, but the life for some is just ment to be the same...
They have to struggle struggle and turn into a diamond from the coal in the end..
So you are one such hidden gem..
This gem could be really precious, side by side it can even take ones life, m talking about Miju-I know he is your love but this love might be ruined, his family life might be ruined too.
Friendship is more than love dear, You are treasured to find such a good friend, Dont try and lose him as your friend-it will hurt you and hurt you like hell.


This might be quite conflicting with others thought but do read it carefully...
Dont  ever forget him as a love, Always keep a corner for him in your heart.
Its very easy to say forget him as your love, He cant be yours but the more you try to forget more he will dominate and capture the throne of your heart.
Be bold, be wise, be prsctical.
Its better to make your self understand than to make anyone else.
mould yourself the way situation demands.

Rest i know you are very intelligent, practical, smart.
I have confidence in you that you will handle the situation (Its easier to handle situations than to handle yourself) and yourself very well...
Keep in touch, jo bhi ho is dost ko batana zarur(whatever happens do tell this friend about it.)

[Don.Bond]

Well Iam in a dilema after reading everything here.. Life is different then what we feel abut it.... Iam not matured enought to comment for the problem mentioned here....

what can I say is... do what ever u feel so that in future u cant blame others for what happen...

its better to blame ourself than blaming others....

[Bharathy]

Thanks for your reply and the problem is solved already.  No sooner I realised that the love what i had is not a proper one and I have given up the same.

Still we are friends today, as i have more respect on him. 

Thanks once again

Bharathy

[The X-Factor....]

Glad to hear that your problem is solved and you are happy leading a peaceful life,,, May God Bless you dear